Patience is often viewed as a virtue that many admire and hope to have in their lives, from afar. As the reality sets in as it nears our lives – when it begins to invade our plans, schedules, and comfort zone – discomfort sets in. Why does patience exist? If there were no disruptions, delays, or disappointments in our lives, would there be a need for patience? If it weren’t for those difficult circumstances, there would not be a need for patience. Naturally, it is understandable to see that certain circumstances will call for patience and it is those instances that we don’t necessarily choose for ourselves. We want instant gratification, convenience, fulfillment.
1 Thessalonians 5:14 We urge you, brethren, admonish the unruly, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with everyone.
Each group that is listed here – unruly, fainthearted, weak – are different. Even with the differences, we are called to be patient with them all. If we are called to be patient with them, then what temptation do you suppose may come? The opportunity to be impatient with them all!
Admonish the unruly, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak – what does this consist of? It’s easy to see why admonishing the unruly can test our patience. The unruly/idle typically refuses to take responsibility for their actions. They know that they can do more but they are content to do “just enough” to squeak by because someone else will take care of whatever needs to be done. Paul isn’t letting them off the hook. He says to warn them – he even goes so far in saying to remove them from fellowship. However, we do so with patience. Why? We must realize that we sin from time to time too. God is patient with us so what gives us the right to be impatient with others? We betray God along with His mercy and grace when we are impatient with others.
God never asks or demands anyone to be patient who has not already received and benefited from the patience of God.
by Lee Elkins